There are many practical issues to manage when someone dies. It can be a confusing time when someone dies, and it is often difficult to know what you need to do first.
There are many procedures that will need to be undertaken. What you need to do first will depend on the circumstances of the death and whether the person died in hospital, at home, a public place or overseas. This will also affect the type of documentation.
There are also many people who will need to be informed of the death. Having to tell other people that someone has died is a very difficult task and even professionals who regularly have to break the news of a death as part of their role, never find it easy.
What you say will change depending on the relationship you have to the person you inform and how well they knew the deceased. It is best to keep it simple at the beginning and inform them later of funeral arrangements.
In this section you will find useful links for accessing help, such as contacting the bereavement register to stop unwanted mail, social services and government help.
Who to contact
Department for Communities Northern Ireland Bereavement Service
The Department of Communities offers a telephone-based service that will allow you to report a death. This service will record the date of death and tell each office that paid benefit to the deceased. They will check for help with funeral costs, and if eligible, the service can take claim details for a funeral expenses payment over the ‘phone, or arrange a suitable call-back.
The team will also check for help from a Bereavement Support Payment. If eligible, the service can take claim details for a Bereavement Support Payment over the ‘phone or arrange a suitable call-back. They can also offer advice on potential benefits or other support that may be available.
- Telephone: 0800 085 2463
- Web: nidirect – Bereavement
Age UK
- Telephone: 0800 678 1602
Bereavement register
- Telephone: 0800 082 1230
Alzheimer’s Society helpline
- Telephone: 0300 222 1122
MacMillan support helpline
- Telephone: 0808 808 0000
Cancer Focus NI
- Telephone: 028 9066 3281
Useful resources
Alzheimer’s Society
Bereaved NI – Practical Support
The Bereavement Register
Cancer Focus NI
Macmillan Information and support
NI Government Services